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[quote=Anonymous]Would this conversation count?

Situation: first hookup with a guy I'd known for a few months.  Could either be a ONS or the start of a FWB type deal, not specified at the time.  Both knew it wouldn't be a relationship.

I was using my hand on him, and he was getting pretty worked up.

Him: we should stop
Me: do you want me to stop?
Silence

Few minutes later...
Him: we really should stop now
Me: if you want me to stop, I will
Silence

Few minutes later...
Him: ok, now we really need to stop
Me: I will stop as soon as you tell me that you WANT me to stop
Him: but... But... I don't have a condom or anything...
Me: oh, that's what you're concerned about?  Don't worry, I have another idea... (gave him a bj to completion)

I worried a little that I may have been too aggressive, but he told me later that he loved it.  And he did come back for more the next week, turning it into a FWB arrangement that lasted for a little over a year, so I don't really feel bad for ignoring his initial "we should stop".[/quote]

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