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[quote=Anonymous]Same here. Husband was a reckless driver who after years of major fights finally toned it down, but will still cause me heart attacks here and there.

The recklessness I saw in his driving the very first night I was in a car with him,  I can now recognize, after a decade of being married,  in many different places that were invisible over our dating and courtship years.

Examples: Lack of impulse control (finances and social / professional situations), "need for speed" turns into railroading me and hiding information to get his way faster; narcotics, etc. F'ing nightmare.

The best part of it was that what I saw of his speeding was NOTHING. It was enough to get my heart racing and think, "for the love of god, why do that?" It was a u-turn very aggressively across 4 lanes of traffic on Pennsylvania avenue late at night.

But it was a very isolated and easy to ignore in the face of other attributes. I figured he was showing off for me.

If you are scared in the car with him, ever, or more than once, just know that what you are experiencing in that moment is only the tiny tip of an iceberg.

Sorry. [/quote]

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