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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: For everyone who chimed in essentially saying 'you're 40 and the only way you're going to have a baby is by IVF', well, I guess that's your opinion. I'm considering IVF, but IVF rates for women over 40 are terrible. It's generally around a 10-15% live birth rate, which equals 85-90% chance of failure for a given cycle. For those of us who have to self-pay and are looking at potentially 6 cycles to get pregnant (at 15-20k/cycle), along with the many risks of the meds used, I don't think it's so crazy to try and 1) identify factors besides age and 2) find and try the simpler possible solutions for a few cycles, before going to IVF. I got pregnant naturally a few months ago and miscarried, so I know it's not impossible, just less likely as we age. Books like 'making babies' (co-authored by a big-shot RE and a TCM practitioner) and TCOYF name routine tests to be done - like a post-coital test to see if the sperm are surviving in your CM or serial progesterone tests, to see if your progesterone is too low. These are two issues that can be dealt with fairly simply. Or assessing whether the luteal phase is too short. But fertility clinics have no interest in these simple sorts of tests and treatments. Factors like low progesterone also would make IVF less than optimal given that it would contribute to implantation issues. I'm not suggesting sitting around and staring at a BBT chart, but taking into account a spectrum of factors and looking at evidence a doctor collects and a woman collects about herself. It seems reasonable and, actually, responsible, but fall outside of RE's protocol. [/quote] People are suggesting IVF because at 40 its the most immediate way to ensure your cycle is an attempt that has a chance of taking and at this point every cycle that doesn't take is just another month older you are. You first posted on July 1, you're already through half a cycle just since asking this question. At this point every month is another month closer to 41, optimizing your chances is critical. [/quote]
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