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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I tried to break up with him. 
He told me I over react and he still doesn't know where that shirt came from, even though I told him how it was most likely mixed up. 
He said i'm clearly not going to change my mind and that I've got him all figured out, that he is a piece of shit (he has said that exact thing before, in many previous arguments).

He then laughs at me when I try to express myself about how he mistreats me.

It's a conversation that will be continued apparently, because he said he had to go we hung up.[/quote]

How to break up with someone:

1.  Say nice things, but also say it's not working out.  
2.  Break up nicely, but unequivocally.  If he tries to hook you into an argument, back away and say, "I understand. I'm definitely not perfect. I think it's clear that we're not meant to be."
3.  Do not in any way engaged in an argument or debate about who did what, when, where, how, who is at fault, and so on.  That is not the point.  The point is to be clear that it is over.
4.  If you are afraid for your physical well being, make sure a friend is over or do this in a semi-private place where you are not alone with him.
5.  Because he is a massive dickwad, obviously--assume he could get violent.  Make sure you have a place to stay, even if that means you have to keep paying rent.  Can you stay with family?  A friend?  Have this arranged before you break up.  Remember to break up in a place that is not private.  Do NOT enter the apartment alone with him.  Always have a buddy backup.
6.  Don't let the animals make you stay.  You are your first priority.
7.  Contact the manager if you trust him/her and explain what is going on very briefly.  Say that you are moving out due to untenable circumstances with your boyfriend.  Ask them to let you know if he is not paying his share of the rent ASAP?  <-- ask a lawyer about this.  You really don't want to be screwed by having to pay your AND his rent, since I'm guessing you're jointly and severally responsible for paying it.

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