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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Disastrous. Same behavior continued eventually.[/quote]

This for several people I know.[/quote]

This for 8 out of 9 people I know who have been cheated on, [b]including those in which the unwitting spouse thinks the marriage is "stronger than ever."[/b]  After being caught, cheaters learn to cover their tracks better.  The personality traits that led them to cheat are not going to change just because they got caught and had to do some groveling in order to avoid getting dumped.  The only exception I have ever seen is where it was the cheater himself who woke up and decided he wanted to stop cheating and confessed before there was even a chance he would be caught.[/quote]

Yeah...reading the comment upthread about the two reformed husbands who no longer cheat, all I can think is "...that you know of".[/quote]

Pp here.  Yea, I gave a sad little smile at those comments.  I know of four couples right now consisting of wives who took back cheating husbands.  All of the husbands are still cheating as I write this, but the wives have no idea.  One wife actually got up in front of a group of friends at a mini reunion recently to share her experience of "happiness after infidelity."  Her husband actually let her get up and tell the tale like a fool even though he KNEW that some of us in the room were aware of his ongoing infidelity.  The older I get, the more human beings disappoint me.  You won't find many people over age 50 or so who think cheaters just spontaneously stop cheating once caught.[/quote]

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