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[quote=Anonymous]OP, just talk about it with him. You can draw an analogy to something maybe he can actually relate to, like, does he ever imagine having sex with a model, stripper, or a porn actress?  Would he ever actually pursue this while in a committed marriage to you?  No, but thinking about it might help him get his libido off the ground, so to speak.  So your "fantasy" was kind of like that--it lives only in your head and only when you're in the mood or getting in the mood. It's not something you actually want to pursue, and if in the kind of situation where it were a real possibility, you would actually be totally grossed out and run far far away. Because the truth is that in REAL LIFE, what you want is what you have: your husband.

Maybe all of that isn't true, but it might be good enough to soften the blow of what your DH finds to be causing him some insecurity.

He might then realize, "Oh, I see. It's like that. No biggie--just a "movie" running through her head, like the moves that run through mine. I can deal with that."[/quote]

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