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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your DH did not react well and that's on him.  Nut I also think that people need to use discretion when discussing their fantasies.  If I told my wife half of mine, the couch would be my bed for a while.[/quote]

I think that people should not ask questions they're not prepared to hear the answers to. This is not an uncommon fantasy. In the universe of fantasies, it's actually pretty tame. If her husband was not prepared to hear that his wife fantasized about things like this, he should not have asked. His hypocrisy in light of his confession to a similar fantasy is particularly childish.

FYI - OP, my husband has been pretty adamant that his fantasy about me having a girlfriend is JUST A FANTASY. But he's also mentioned it a lot. I finally had to tell him, "DH, I think it's really cool that you're comfortable telling me that you think about this and have zero problem with your fantasies, but this is not something that I am interested in, so if you're mentioning it because you hope it'll become a reality, I really want you to get it through your head that it's not something that *I* want." He got it, and now we occasionally joke about my imaginary girlfriend.[/quote]

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