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[quote=Anonymous][quote]We're visiting and staying with my parents[/quote] Ok, so you have relinquished control. Sorry. You could have stayed in a hotel but you are Mommy's girl now staying in her house. She will do what she wants. She's in charge. She's not treating you with the respect of an equal. But that is how she sees you. I would suggest some vacation where you are on equal turf. Maybe rent a vacation house - you have to pay your own way (son't let Mommy pay for you) On equal turf you can insist on being the Mother to your child. She can take if or leave it. Otherwise with the visiting arrangement you have mentioned, you have to just hope she changes her style/approach. But do voice your unhappiness to her in case it makes a little of a difference. Tell her, " Mom you had your chance to raise your children. Now it's my chance". But again, good luck ~ her house, beggars can't be choosers.[/quote]
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