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It hasn't come between us. I never told her that I was annoyed. If I am to be totally honest on this board I will elaborate as to why I was taken aback by it. 
When he grandmother first died, a lot of the family was all over and we couldn't all afford to fly to the funeral. A number of us (my cousin's siblings, my siblings and other relatives) decided that we would have an ash scattering ceremony for my godmother. We have all just gotten settled into lives (at the time of her death, we were in college,etc) .

We have been talking about planning the ceremony to have the ashes scattered in a spot where we know she wanted to have as her final resting place. I called my cousin to tell her that we were going to start planning and she said that she doesn't know where the urn is. She said that in her previous apartment, she discovered it was missing but after moving she expected to find in amongst her storage items. So there will be no scattering. Again, I know we can have a celebration to just commemorate my godmother but honestly. I think it is more of the fact that she lost the urn, it just seems to be a sign of disrespect to me. [/quote]

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