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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel bad even typing the subject bc I love my little baby to bits. But I hate being married. I like my DH ok- he's a fun person but if I had a do over I wouldn't marry him. We are so incompatible.  I hate all the trade offs and compromises I have to make in marriage.  I love my little baby so much and have a hard time with motherhood. I miss sleeping in and keeping whatever schedule I want. People say live authentically - I don't know what my authentic self even looks like...is the authentic me a person who abandons her husband and child just so she can sleep in on the weekends and plan month-long yoga retreats?  The irony is that before I was married, I would pray to meet someone and get married.  Now I realize how dumb it was to want that so bad. I miss living in the city, keeping all my money, having my time to myself.  Now I'm a SAHM living so far from my authentic self, and I don't know how to find my way back.  Single gals, embrace it! I miss it. [/quote]

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I totally agree with you. I am stopping at one child and if I ever get divorced, I will not remarry.  If you are an attractive, financially independent woman, there is literally no reason to invite drama into your life by giving a man a legal hold on you.  Penis is free.  Also, I love my baby, but if I could redo motherhood, I would not.  Childbearing takes a far greater toll on women.  There are a lot of wives/mothers who feel the way we do.  I wish someone had been honest with me before I got married and had a child.[/quote]

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