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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This really changes the whole situation.  If this is the only chance you have to get the heck outta Dodge for the summer then take the opportunity and go.  It sucks for him but that's life.  As a parent, he can't play the "if I don't have fun, no one has fun" game anymore.    [/quote]

Eh, I'm not really getting that vibe from the DH. What I'm getting is that for some reason he feels obligated to put some hours in at work. (I'm guessing he's the breadwinner.) And OP wants to go somewhere and if DH has to work, then screw him. Add to this that apparently the calendar is so crammed in advance that there is no other option for anyone to choose anything beyond what has been scheduled weeks in advance. This last part is what tips me towards DH. OP is saying that, "yeah this is the only weekend off for weeks but since you need to work we're leaving town without you."

I think a compromise is in order, and that if the calendar is truly that full then the family should stay in the area and do something together. [/quote]

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