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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men contact me through online dating sites who state that they don't want kids and are not open to someone with kids.  It clearly states that I have kids who live with me all of the time.  My friend and I were talking about this and she chalks it up to men being [b]NID (not into details)[/b].  LOL!  I'll say.  If the guy seems normal, I will email him back.  Within the first few emails, I let him know that I have kids and that they live with me 24/7.  90% of the time, I never hear from them again.[/quote]

I vote NID.  It's amazing how often guys skim over stuff, or don't even read/look.  I don't mean only for online dating.  Even men I know won't even read an email, or at most will skim it.  One man I know only reads some texts, and skims the ones he reads at that![/quote]

LOL--so true! I met my DH on OKCupid. When we were dating, we pulled up each other profile. And there was this feature where you could compare how you answered a question and how he answered the same question. We got to one question that was worded weirdly but essentially said, "Are you attracted to underage persons?" He answered that he was not (whew!), but didn't really pay attention to the next step where he indicated that he was fine if the other person (me!) was attracted to underage persons WHA!?! He basically said he was okay with dating a pedophile! He freaked out when he realized how he answered that question...NID :-) [/quote]

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