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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks to everyone for the replies. 
I think that some of you have not read the post correctly because you seem to be under the impression that I have let him carry on with another woman and that I am putting up with too much. I ended it because of that. I didn't let him carry on with anything and I haven't out up with anything. I walked away. I have protected myself and I did actually mean it when I did actually walk away. I'm not sure, have I been unclear?
To the poster who is judging me by saying that he's not sure why I needed it spelt out : I 'm sorry you feel the need to phrase it in such a judgemental way. This is a man I have spent two years of my life with. I trust him. He's my friend. No, I don't just walk away because he's gone quiet. Yes, I do actually need a explanation and yes, I also deserve one. I'm sorry if you don't understand that but that's your issue, not mine.
Thank you everyone else for your answers.[/quote]

You didn't break up with him, he ghosted on you. You also found out he was carrying on with another woman and let him decide what he was doing. Do you see how you are passive? Being assertive is actually ending the relationship.[/quote]

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