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Reply to "I had an emotional affair but now I'm ready to divorce my wife because she can't get over it"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you'll need to be more patient. She is dealing with a tremendous emotional upheaval. Ultimately, she needs to forgive you - not just for your sake, but hers. She is miserable right now, much more than you are. Until she can forgive, that anger will consume her. Forgive does not mean forget. It's going to take even more time for the trust to return and you need to be prepared for that and understand her perspective. Like everyone else has mentioned, you need couples counseling. Individual counseling would also be tremendously helpful for each of you. It will help you get to the root cause of why this happened and help you address your issues so you become a better person. If it doesn't help for this marriage, it will help you in your next relationship if you divorce. I've been on your wife's side and it isn't easy, but I also understand why it happened. It will take her time to get there, and she may never get there. Good luck to you both![/quote]
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