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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop barking up this tree, OP. Your father is mentally gone and your mother is on her own. You need to find a solution for helping your mother that doesn't depend on your father's money.

The mistake was made when your mother failed to get a formal divorce agreement that would almost certainly have entitled her to some portion of his pension.

Where was your concern then?[/quote]

I told her to do that. I did not expect him to remarry, but I did tell her to get a formal agreement. He was close to demented when he married her (she was his doctor). 
He was very controlling and abusive when younger and my mother was afraid of him. [/quote]

Then live with the decision.  I get that it sucks, but your position is that you knew what should have been done, your mother elected not to do it, the predictable thing that you needed to guard against happened, you have regrets, and want a court to turn back the clock and act as if you DID have a support agreement.  That is, frankly, ridiculous. Blame yourself, and help your mother.  [/quote]

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