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Reply to "Have you ever loved a woman but didn't tell her?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not a romantic fantasy in any way. We don't talk about any issues with our spouses. If my husband were to see the emails from him, I would have nothing to hide. They are very benign. We don't talk about being in love with each other. I mean, we did years ago, but not since getting married to other people. That's the thing, we don't have to talk about it because we both just know. What is more important to us is just to know that if we want to talk to the other person, that we can. If either of us wants to say "Hey, just checking in, how are you?" we can. Just because you love someone who is not your spouse does not mean you have to lose yourself completely. My husband talks to his exes sometimes on Facebook. I don't ask to see what he is saying. I know he still cares about them and has love for them. That does not bother me. It would bother me more if he didn't. As a society, we need to learn to love more without it being about control. [/quote]
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