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[quote=Anonymous]One month into marriage, it sounds like your dh was regretting his loss of freedom pretty much as soon as he got hitched. The incident sounds like he was testing you, to see what freedom you would allow him, and when you "failed" his test, he wanted out.

I do wonder if you have certain issues as well that might cause him to feel trapped. The way you described the incident, you made yourself sound helpless.  He did not leave you "stranded". If he kicked you out of the car in the rain and drove off, that would be stranded.  It's possible that you have fears of abandonment, which is pushing your dh away.  I admit that's a huge presumption, but given the way you told the story, it seems like a possibility.

Whatever the issue, I think trying counseling would be a good idea.  You want to at least try to work out your issues before you throw in the towel.  That way you have no regrets. The worst thing you can do is ignore the issues and hope they go away.

Good luck op.[/quote]

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