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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thanks for the responses. He doesn't want to separate. We just got married a month ago.  Things just haven't been good between us this past week. I got rear ended a few days ago, that left me injured and out of work. I've been mopey dealing with that. DH works 70-80 hours a week. So we've been short with one another. He told me he didn't want to blow up at me, so he had to leave.  He just needed some space. I should have given him his spac but I was just confused and needed to make sure he was ok.[/quote]

OP, while it might be normal (if sleazy) for a man who's been married a month to be flirting with a barista, it is NOT normal for him to tell his wife about it.

I agree with the PPs who suggest counseling, because it seems like you have an opportunity to get your marriage back on the right track before they get truly derailed.

That said, when he told you to go, you should have gone. At that point, you say, "Do you have cab fare home?" and then "I'll see you at home. I'm ready to talk whenever you are." Then you go, calm yourself down and think about how to have a conversation about the things that are upsetting you both without being confrontational.[/quote]

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