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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I'm really not trying to sound like a jerk.  This is a sincere request for help.  I appreciate the responses, particularly on therapy and meditation.  These are good ideas and things I think I could benefit from.  [b]I don't think of myself as avoiding something else or being manic but maybe I am.  I was sexually abused as a child by a family member and I mostly avoid this overall.[/b]  DCUM is one of the only places I have ever revealed it actually other than to DH.

As for as helping others I do actually volunteer a fair amount and dedicate quite a bit of time to a nonprofit board I am on along with more hands on volunteer work.  Just trying to show I am really not a huge jerk, I just don't ever seem to feel satisfied.[/quote]

You need to deal with this head on. You were violated in the worst way by someone you trusted. You were vulnerable and powerless. My guess is that by continuously looking for that next mountain to conquer, you're attempting to regain that control back. If you keep yourself moving towards some goal, you see yourself as strong.

Just stop, take a breath and be still. Therapy will help you deal with what happened and help you get to a place where you can be still and simply enjoy what you have.  [/quote]

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