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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't sweat it.  Just let the kids know that when they are uncomfortable in the same bed that they can take turns sleeping in the bed one night and on the floor the next.  If he gets a thin little mattress that will slide under the bed, it will be like a trundle.

This is the crap you have to put up with when you divorce.  You longer get a say in these matters.  It sucks because there is really no recourse.  You just have to learn to let it go.  Pretty soon your kids will advocate for themselves.

The good news (if there is some) is that you ex is clearly making choices that indicate he does not plan to take an active role in your kid's lives.  While that is not a positive thing in a general sense, it probably means that they will be spending less and less time at his place over the years -- which means you won't have to worry as much about his parenting decisions.
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Thanks.  I guess this is the bottom of it.  when we first separated, Ex made a lot of effort to be there for the kids for a month or so, but when he realized I am seriously moving towards divorce, he changed his tune and has completely checked out.  DSD just left from her biannual visit and he barely saw the kids during the buildup, during her stay and never ramped back up after she left.  I am just so full of guilt and sadness that my kids have a dad who clearly does not value them.  They are such wonderful kids and deserve so much better![/quote]

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