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[quote=Anonymous] OP - So from what you relate Boy Friend has gotten involved with two girls and had a child by each without no concern idea of marriage before the child came along. Seems as if the key point is that all three of you made some choices in the last few years which may have not been thought completely through. It might be a good idea for you and BF to go to some couples counseling to define your relationship as a first step because if commitment is not there for you, maybe it is best for you and DC to be moving on and establishing a custody/co-parenting relationship with this fellow. Then you would be on equal footing with the former girl friend. It sounds like at this point no one is at the point of making any long-term decisions. What would make sense for both of you girls is to get legal custody AND support documents in place to protect the best interests of the two children and then you girls can go after BF or not......[/quote]
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