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OP here.  I do think that spending time together as "co-parents" can work in certain instances - such as when BOTH parties have moved on.  How can two people truly just spend time with their child together when one of them has an ulterior motive to get the other parent back so that she can have her "family" back?  In this instance, it is the latter.  Her sole purpose in all of this is to get him back.  He's too dumb to realize what's really happening here.

And to your point about maturity, yes, I agree.  This started out in our late teens/very early 20s.  We were all immature enough to put ourselves in this situation and did some really silly things.[/quote]
OP, it doesn't actually matter what you think.  I'm sorry, but this is what he wants to do, how he feels he ought to parent.  The only question is can you accept that.  The rest of it (why he's doing this, why she's doing this, how they could do things differently, how other people do things) just don't matter.

You have one question to answer:  Am I ok with him spending 'family' time with ex and child?[/quote]

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