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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can not stay in a relationship like this. I just can't.[/quote] +1 I'm a guy, and I went through two serious LTRs like this, and it ultimately drove me insane. Once I finally learned my lesson, one of the first things I "revealed" to any dating partner was "I do not want to be joined at the hip". I then very quickly (yes, a test, whatever, fuck it) deliberately did things that basically were "here's me going off and doing stuff alone, sometimes with female friends, sometimes in settings where I [i]could[/i] get up to something if I were that kind of guy". Any sings of jealousy, that was the end of it. I don't have time in my life for wasting on dealing with someone else's clingy insecurities. I can't fix [i]their issues[/i] for them and any time or energy I have for that kind of mental health improvement should be spent on making myself a better person and partner. DTMFA[/quote]
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