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[quote=Anonymous]You're just in different places I life right now. In truth I don't know that there is anything you can do about his neediness because it sounds like you're doing everything you can besides giving up school and your job. I hope that he didn't give you a hard time about choosing to keep your job and not move in with him. I agree that neediness doesn't always equal abuse but I do understand why the details you've provided raise red flags and have PPs alerted to the potential for abuse or controlling behavior. Even if he's incapable of abuse, as you say, he needs to respect and support your goals and dreams, and your independent nature, and not be threatened by them. You should not have to change yourself for him, or twist yourself into a pretzel to please him, especially only 6 months out. How often do you text/email/talk?[/quote]
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