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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP, I've been there too. My mom told me explicitly and implicitly my whole life how much worse off she was since having me. I've always tried to be "good" and earn my place and I distinctly remember growing up thinking if I could just get the guts to kill myself it would be a big favor to her. Of course if I ever say any of these things to her she acts shocked, denies it all and goes right back to praising herself for all the "sacrifices" she made. We're still in touch but only minimally and I've had to do a lot of work grieving the loss of a possible healthy relationship with her, at least for now. We had an incident this past year where she said some really terrible awful things to me and finally as an adult it hit me full force that this is who she is and there's nothing I can do about it so the only thing I can do it try to protect myself and my children from her. [/quote]
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