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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that he cheated. But she is awful, so I sort of see why.

Just divorce.[/quote]

I don't think she is awful. Look what he did. I would be much harder on my husband. He is pathetic and that's why she said that. I totally get it.[/quote]

Yes, but what's the point of being "hard" on someone in this scenario? What does it accomplish? You either can live with it, and then you forgive and stop harping on him about it. Or you can't live with it and split. Anything else is insane.[/quote]

I would be hard on him because of all the hurt. It probably doesn't accomplish anything. What did his sleepover accomplish?? Never mind...
I wouldn't just get over it whether that's rational or not. There is anger, hurt etc.

I have never had this happen but I can imagine it wouldn't go over well at all.
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I get the initial outburst, but going on and on and on like OPs shows lack of self-awareness in this context. Good counseling is probably in order, provided both are interested in staying in the relationship.[/quote]

I think the DH lacks the self awareness judging from the texts.[/quote]

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