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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't believe a 39 year old woman could possibly be so shallow and stupid.

No one "convinced" you to marry him, OP, you made that decision at 33 freaking years old.   You apparently aren't attracted to someone who you make sound very attractive, but you stayed for six years, built a life together, had children, and you want to blow it all up for an ideal that quite frankly, you aren't going to find if you get divorced.  You're just going to blow up everyone's lives.

You know what, I think some people are just determined to defeat themselves.  They don't have any real problems and they need to manufacture some.[/quote]

+1  OP, you are looking for passion and feel cheated because you never felt that for your DH.  But you have made your bed.  For the people who say life is short, get a divorce, you can't possibly think that is the best thing for the kids.   Unless there is abuse, divorce can really harm children.

Would you be happier if you had a DH that you felt chemistry with but did squat at home?    It's hard to find someone that has the whole package, if one even exists.  Have you been reading too many romance novels?  [/quote]

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