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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][QUOTE] after 5 months of him not contributing anything financially or making any effort to work[/QUOTE]

OP gave her father reasonable parameters for his being allowed to stay. He chose not to follow them. Then he sneaks into her house and hasn't come clean about it. Just because someone is family doesn't mean there isn't something to be cautious about - if OP's gut is saying her dad staying there is not a god idea, so be it. Who are any of us to judge.[/quote]

It's obvious there is a backstory, because no normal person with a heart would ever throw out their own Dad after 5 months of unemployment. OP, it took my husband, who holds multiple degrees in a hot field and is eminently marketable, 18 months to find a job. I know you expect your father to get any kind of low-paying job and I know you said he wasn't even making an effort, but... still, it seems harsh.

How old is he? He may have given up already, and not be up for fighting anymore.

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