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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you had been able to set boundaries earlier in the process you wouldn't have blown up at her. The thing to do was to tell her you couldn't host her while her siblings were recovering from oral surgery and to ask her to come back another time. I know (from experience) how hard it can be to set those simple boundaries so you're going to have to practice it. But what happened here is that you kept letting her walk all over you so of course you blew up. Just say no. Accept that you have a right to say it. (you don't really believe it now) Say it earlier. You won't lose your shit next time.[/quote]
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