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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get what Op is trying to say. I love my kids and they're an enormous part of me and of my story but I defiitely have an identity beyond them and that's what i try to convey on my dates. This does not mean I am trying to hide them or that I bypass answering in ways that dont mention them. If asked what i did for the weekend and the weekened involved my kids, then i bring that up. If i find that I have nothing to say beyond stories of my kids, then I reassess ME.[/quote] I think OP is saying something different than you are. She talks about trying to avoid talking about him, and it being hard because of questions like where you do you live, what did you do last weekend, etc. It sounds like you're comfortable mentioning your children, you just don't focus on them. That's sensible and healthy for early dating.[/quote]
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