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[quote=Anonymous]For me it was 3 years when I was under 30 and out of college. That 3 years is a "he's talking about it" and just waiting for the right time to propose versus him saying he isn't ready for marriage or radio silence. If he is saying he isn't ready for marriage or not sure he ever wants to get married and we have been dating 2 years, I'm not sure I would stick around and hope something magically changes between year 2 and 3. The timeline would have been shorter in my 30's because I would have wanted to try to have kids. I'm not quite sure what it would have looked like in my 40's if I was past having kids with that guy and /or we had kids from a previous relationship and wanted to wait until the kids were a certain age. I could easily see wanting to wait 4-5 years if for example he had a kid in high school and I had kids in elementary school and we both had joint custody of our kids. [/quote]
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