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[quote=Anonymous]I was 38, DH was 39. We started talking about marriage in general almost immediately. Not in a "I want to marry you" kind of  way. But a "I see marriage this way, how do you see it?" We were testing to see if we were on the same page about marriage, kids and long range stuff. But still not talking about this stuff happening with each other.

Both of us were weary about jumping into "i want to marry you" right away. He was divorced, I had been in too many burn fast and get burned relationships.

But I also made it very clear, I would not live with someone until engaged and planning a wedding (with a date set). Best decision ever!

After 10 months we talked for 2-3 months about what would marriage to each other be like. Then we decided to get married. Took him 4 months to propose (I was already starting to plan the wedding). 2 months later we moved in together and 4 months after that we were married.

So less than 2 years from meeting to marriage.

After age 30, 1-2 years until engagement and 1 year of engagement until marriage.

After age 35, 2 years until marriage (6 months to 1 year of engagement). [/quote]

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