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[quote=Anonymous]You are getting an unbiased opinion, but you dont like what we are saying. You have an alcoholic husband. This will not get better with time or sleep deprevation of a child--think more stress, not less. Every alcoholic blames 'boredom" for why they are drinking. We live in a time where there is 100% no reason for anyone to every be bored, EVER. He drinks because there is a wiring problem in his head that keeps whispering "drink, drink, drink, drink". The fact that you have become his Mommy and he is the teen age boy begging his Mommy for a drink is such a bad dynamic. So everyone's advice is...don't have a kid until he (not you) gets his drinking under control (meaning he's stopped). Doesn't mean you have to get a divorce, just means dont have kids with him. And you need to get into therapy. You need to figure out why 1)you are okay with the Mommy/Teen dynamic and 2) why you keep caving when teen husband begs Mommy for a beer. [/quote]
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