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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.

A couple of reasons :

1.  I am an introvert. I get drained by social encounters and energized by solitary. I socialize easily especially in neutral venues but I strongly prefer not to.

2. When I have gone for destination weddings I have always booked a hotel

3.[b] I have a very strict routine with a severely disabled family member that I take care of 24/7. Hosting would throw my routine off which would make me anxious and in return would compromise the care to the sick family member.[/b]

4. My inlaws have not been supportive so I guess I am somewhat resentful. They have however done a few kind gestures in the past, so I am willing to compromise all the above and host if majority of you think hosting is the right thing to do.

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This would make me hesitate.  Is there some way you can let them stay there but not really host?  "Sure you can use the rooms etc. but I won't be available to really be a host.  The care of my family member has to take precedence."[/quote]

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