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[quote=Anonymous]You need to frame it differently. It's not that you are annoyed about having to deal with her, it's that you want to give HER the best visit possible. You can't do that without a little pre-planning. It's not that you don't want her to visit, it's that you want her to be able to visit AND ALSO enjoy her time and get to see the kiddos and spend quality time. Make this the basis of your argument about why she needs to check with you before making plans. Then give examples of ways you can be flexible, IF you have enough time to plan for a visit. And then do not cater to the un-planned trips, like the PPs suggested. [/quote]
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