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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I do appreciate your input, my question was how to break the news that I am resigning from being her MOH without bruising her feelings. [/quote]

I get that it can be annoying when you post a specific question on DCUM and people answer a different question instead or tell you you are doing it wrong.

But here, you really are doing it kind of wrong. You seem to think you're upset because she's making it difficult for you to help her. But she hasn't asked you for your help and seems to explicitly not want it. You seem put out that you are being asked to do tasks that nobody has asked or wants you to do. The solution is for you to stop thinking your role is something it is not.

Here is my advice: Say to her, "I really want to be a great MOH but am having a tough time figuring out my role. I am going to back off for a bit, and you come and let me know if you need specific advice or help." Then don't get ticked off when she doesn't ask you for help.[/quote]

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