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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you are being judged. Do you want to keep her as a friend? If so I'd take her aside and say "look, it seems we have slightly different approaches to parenting. It hurts me when you comment in a negative way on how we are raising our kid. It feels judgmental. Can we not do that?"[/quote] This- the advice to point out this or that or react in a way that is more "retaliation" is childish and for people who are too insecure to admit when they are being hurt or upset by someone. Say it flat out, that she's hurting your feelings. If she is a real friend, she will feel badly and attempt to change! If she continues, well then feel free to throw whatever it is you want back at her and start to distance[/quote]
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