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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any other reasons of what it could be? I'm still baffled. I could see if no contact for days before but this was literally less than 24 hours before we last spoke. I may sound naive but it didn't seem to me that he was talking to anyone else. [/quote]
He likely wasn't who he said he was.[/quote]

+1 Plus who knows if his child really was sick last time. Please remember that in truth you know zilch about him -- you've never even met and people lie all the time on these dating sites, for a zillion different reasons.

What is concerning me the most, OP, is that you are sounding more upset with yourself than you are with him.
You didn't do anything wrong, and have no reason to be embarrassed -- HE is the one who should feel ashamed and upset with himself.
All you did is make plans, and keep them...why should you feel foolish? You don't know him and he doesn't know you, so this wasn't a true rejection.
You're new to this so you hadn't experienced what online dating veterans are very familiar with...that false sense of intimacy that comes from frequent phone conversations, emails and texts.

It's natural to be disappointed because you had (too) high expectations based on your prior communication, but take this as a learning experience and don't waste another minute thinking and wondering about this guy; chalk it up to him being an a-hole, and move on. But in the future, try to meet sooner, and when you can't, keep your expectations low until you actually meet in person.[/quote]

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