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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP didn't ask a simple question - she gave a rather detailed, if not one sided account, of a couple's split.  She asked if she had to choose a side.  Of course not, OP you can make any choice you want.  But it sounds like you have placed yourself in the middle of their split, and you have strong opinions of him and her, and theories as to why they split.  But you are not them, and you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors.

I just don't get why you are so entrenched in their divorce.  If you can't take being around your friend while she's being difficult (kind of a side effect of going through a rough time BTW), then cool your friendship to a level that you can manage.  OP is asking for opinions, and that is what she is getting.  I see a lot more judgements regarding the couple OP is talking about on this thread.  Which is a little bizarre.[/quote]

My friend apologized for lashing out to me. She is so sad and angry at him, not at me. At the end of the day, he left her when she wants to reconcile. The mentally ill sibling may just be an excuse.

I am absolutely not in the middle and I certainly did not put myself there. He has left her and I will be her friend first. I just listen when she vents.[/quote]

You may want to re-read your original post OP.[/quote]

My friend is ice cold when upset. They fought all the time about his family. He left her. I listened. I did get yelled at for not agreeing that her ex is an asshole. I think it is wrong of her to trash his mentally ill sibling and air their family problems. All true facts.

This is not my divorce. This is my out of state friend. I will probably never see or talk to her ex as he also lives a few hundred miles from me. That still does not make me hate him or want to trash him.[/quote]

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