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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a few months in and haven't told anyone yet....we're dealing with male issues which I understand can be particularly embarrassing to my husband.  I thought we could power through, it'd work, and we'd be on our way.  But we're not and its getting harder.  I go back and forth though because I'm not sure I want to bring people (my mom, my bff) into it and then have to announce every failure to them.  Share regularly that no we're STILL not pregnant.  I wish I could tell them so I could talk it through with someone other than my husband and then have them forget so we didn't have to have the ongoing "yep, failed again" convos.

What have you all done?  Any regrets?[/quote]

OP, you don't owe people status updates or specific details if/when you tell them.  You just say we're having trouble getting pregnant and leave it at that.  If people ask how it is going, you just say "no luck yet.". People will ask out of concern and caring and most people have the class not to ask about the details.  A lot of people who know me know but they do not know the details, just that I cannot have more biological children. Not ONE person have asked why or for specific reasons why.[/quote]

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