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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I htink I am in that marriage now. I don't leave becauase I know that MOST marriages end up in the friend zone. I had several long term relationships before marriage and the passion always cools to some extent, especially with kids.  The worst is when the passion cools and you realize that you don't even want to be friends.    We have a good enough marriage for now with a young kid.  [/quote]

You must have a medium to low sex drive. I won't let the passion cool too much in my marriage because I value that part of my life.[/quote]
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Plus , passion and romance ebb and flow . The foundation of my marriage is our friendship and trust and shared spirituality.
We have kids and we have passion . Sometimes it's more kids than passion. Sometimes we cannot wait to get the kids out of the house or to sleep so we can enjoy the passion. Other times you look at each other and think "WTH" !!
Then it all comes back around, you enjoy the friendship, the shared jokes and or activities. Maybe you do something he likes , and you don't , just to put a smile on his face. Maybe he does the same for you. You have a fight, but you don't walk away, because you remember that you have been here before and that this too shall pass. He is your friend and you have walked done some of life's roughest roads together and that means something. 
Marriage is a commitment, a covenant, not a romance. It just had romance and passion thrown in.[/quote]

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