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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, it does happen more so for men. Although I have seen it often with mothers too. I think it is very sad and that is why if I even plan to divorce my husband (if he cheated or something along those lines) I would first steer him into a vasectomy. I know it is not guarantee but at least makes things harder.

I would also insist in some financial provisions for our children, such as child support until they are 24 if college students or graduate, whatever comes first. I know this is not common in this country but that is how it is done in my country of origin. Otherwise I would risk he just deciding "not to help" after they turn 18 and I would have less money to support them through college PLUS the college costs itself. Like what is going to happen to my niece soon enough.

Yeah, I know I will get flamed for this but whatever.[/quote]

After 18, parents choice.  My husband choose not to support his kids after 18/high school as they treated him like crap.  No way he was paying college and living expenses for an adult who treated him the way they did.  If they want to go to college bad enough, have a relationship with dad or figure it out.[/quote]

It ceases to be a "choice" if it is in the terms of the divorce agreement. THAT is the time to get those things work out and, honestly, the best time to get a man to sign this sort of agreement. It certainly is NOT after he remarried and build another family for himself.[/quote]

Only a few states require it.  My husband's agreement was 18, he actually overpaid a few months to be on the safe side.  It had nothing to do with remarriage but the kids behavior toward them.  If they want a parent to pay, they need to treat that person like a parent and not a human atm.[/quote]

Only a few states require what? Require that the terms of the divorce agreement be honored? I am not talking about a law, I am talking about make this into the agreement at the time of divorce.[/quote]

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