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[quote=Anonymous]I met my DH on OkCupid.

I found the guys I met on there were like most guys IRL. Some wanted just sex and if they didn't get it in the first few dates, they were gone. Others wanted relationships and willing to wait a little longer to see if things were clicking before ending things if the sex didn't happen. (I only slept with guys when I was in a committed relationship)

What you are dealing with is a mind set issue. You feel bad that you are a virgin and that you are going to disappoint the guys--like there is something wrong with you that you have to apologize for. There is nothing wrong with you, your size or your sexuality. You are absolutely perfect the way you are. Someone out there will think that a 16W virgin is the best thing ever and love every piece of you.

But you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find that guy (we all do!). So date. Tell them that you want to take things slowly and you don't believe in having sex until you are in a committed relationship or marriage. Kiss when you want to kiss and don't when you don't. Be smart, like don't go to his place or invite him to your place unless you are ready for sex (or you've had a very clear conversation that you are waiting to have sex until X, Y or Z happens).

Dating suck and is awkward, so don't get discouraged. Just keep putting yourself out there and don't take things personally if they don't work out. You are supposed to be the the prettiest, smartest (thinest), sexiest woman out there. You are supposed to be you, warts and all, the best you, you can be. That will allow you to find the perfect guy for you.

Good Luck![/quote]

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