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[quote=Anonymous]I am/was in a similar situation OP. I finally decided late last year to go completely dark. It was affecting my mental health to the point I would get so upset and angry when he wouldn't visit his daughter. I have since realized you can't make someone do what you want them to do. My ex has seen our daughter twice this year. Once in January and once last month. He lives less than 30 minutes away so distance isn't an issue. He doesn't financially support her even though child support is in place. He is behind over 10,000 dollars. Just like you I am someone who is not interested in the money. I am very financially stable. So I finally decided if he wants to see or talk to her then he has to reach out. I no longer reach out to him. It has helped so much. I feel like a new woman in the past 5 months. [/quote]
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