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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I knew something was wrong with you when you didn't ask for something that you are legally entitled too, i.e. child support. Your special needs comment only bears that out. You chose to have premarital sex and it bit you in the ass. If you truly felt that children need dads, you would have lived accordingly. I'd be willing to chalk an opps pregnancy to a bad decision, but it seems you've learned nothing, about compassion, about the law, and how to conduct yourself like a lady. Your post is current information about yourself not rehashing the past. From where I sit, you and your ex deserved each other. It's too bad your child has to suffer with an absent father and a cruel mother [/quote]

Huh...

I have three beautiful nephews who are exceptionally bright, kind, loving, and athletic and their dad wants nothing to do with them.

I would often look at them when they were in full on "boy" mode horsing around and just having so much fun and think wow.. what kind of person walks away from his kids... turns his back on his flesh and blood.  I mean regardless of the circumstances... married/wanted or not... able bodied or not.

I often wondered how could it be that their dad could be so blind to his blessings (3 healthy, smart, beautiful sons).  Hey be a Disney dad if that is all you are capable of.  If nothing else just show up for the fun stuff but how can you just not show up.

OP doesn't sound cruel in the slightest.  Presumably she shows up every day and gives it all she has.. and not just for the fun stuff.  Where did that come from?  Because you think she slighted special needs kids.  Try a little nuance.  Give her a break. [/quote]

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