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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]1. You have confirmed you are still attractive. 
2. Consider this event as a warning shot, and don't just brush it under the carpet.  
3. Be a grown up and keep it to yourself.  Don't tell anyone else who could use this information against you somehow- make you feel guilty,  burden you with their opinions, judgement, or worse, want to revisit events with you over and over, and check up on you.   This will make it very difficult to put behind you.   This should be very private, not for all of your friends, mother, etc. 
4. Take some time to evaluate what felt good, and what felt terrible and why.  Maybe you will come to know yourself and what you want more clearly from this- and find the motivation to pursue it in either direction.  
5. Consider forgiving yourself.[/quote]

I'm surprised how mean people have been. Although this is dcum. The PP seems to be the only one who is cleared eyed and not shaming her for getting married in her 20s or accusing her of needing to go to AA[/quote]

There is a whole contingency on here that have such a knee jerk reaction to people making pretty common mistakes.  Just because it offends you to the core, doesn't make it pathological.  If people don't cheat on their spouse, they do other terrible things to themselves or others.  Many people cheat at some point, and regret it.  She didn't have sex with the guy and come here gushing about how hot it was.   All of the harpies on here have told their own lies, cheated elsewhere in life, and have their own regrets.  Get some humanity, Duggar fans.[/quote]

I think I love you.[/quote]

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