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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe I'm more astute than everyone else, but my reading comprehension and interpolation skills lead me to understand that the OP is unhappy in his marriage at the moment because his wife is treating him as noting more than a source of semen with which to impregnate her.

There is no joy or romance or anticipate because it's all revolving around the mechanics and timing of conception sex. Conversation and communication revolves around fertile times, next baby, etc. etc.

OP, I validate your frustration. I'm a female, but I've seen this happen to a few of my friends, and it really wasn't pretty. Baby fever really can be an illness. I've seen women lie about contraception etc., so if you really don't want another baby right now, insist upon comdoms that you have.

I think brutally honest is a must here, if the point is not getting across. How may require counseling, as there is likely to be a lot of fallout from two such polar positions. Unfortunately, gentle discussion may still leave the issue open in her mind, which is sounds like it's not.

Sometimes, the truth hurts. It may hurt you too, but at least you followed your truth. 
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I think maybe you're projecting your own experiences onto OP because he pretty clearly stated that she sucks the joy out of everything and he doesn't want to be in the same room as her. It's not cause of the mechanics of conception, he hasn't told us exactly why he dislikes her so much but they're not even having sex.[/quote]

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