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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Let's just face it -- sometimes, wives are just irrational. [/b]

With that said, your marriage has been admittedly rocky. Now your wife may just be a difficult person to be married to, but you've got to decide whether you want to put up with her, imperfections and all, or if you're just in the preparatory stages of checking out. [/quote]

Wow, misogynistic jerk much? Human beings are irrational, no matter the gender. It's not a state owned by wives and girlfriends that men must carry the heavy cross to bear.

OP, I'm going to apply my usual rule of assuming that anyone looking for DCUM to side with them is only telling a maximum 50% of the story. But, let me  pull the facts from your first post, and you can let me know even how even a rational person would see it:

1. Troubled marriage
2. Member of opposite sex
3. Late night texts
4. Your defense that you don't have feelings for the woman. Who says that?

Now, I think most of these on their own, aren't a big deal. Both DH and I have friends of the opposite sex. The difference is, we talk about them. I'll text Larlo right in front of him. I 'll tell him about Larlo and his family. I am not waiting until he goes to bed to text. We are not having marital problems, a situation which sometimes necessitates acting a little differently both in the relationship and with others.

I'm also curious as to why your wife would be snooping your texts. Either she's a snooper, or she felt she had a reason to snoop, and was right.

So was she overreacting? Maybe, maybe not, and you're not giving the entire story so people will side with you. Even if she is, it's a huge signal to y that you need to communicate with her about your female friend in order to help her feel more comfortable. [/quote]

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