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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess my question was geared towards people who are in the know about these sort of things, regarding filing something this drastic MONTHS after she saw me drive by her house. 
If she is in so much fear for her safety and saw me drive by ONCE, why wouldnt she file the day after? Why wait until the end of April? 
and would the courts look at that as an issue?[/quote]

Very few people outside of domestic violence victims race to the courthouse the very next day. She doesn't have to prove that she's in total fear of her safety; she has to prove that there are reasons that she believes you're stalking them and she wants it to stop. This action could reasonably come after months of deliberation. She's not obligated to do it immediately. Her delay may factor into the decision but it's not the deciding factor. It's interesting that you're now putting her in a place of victimizing YOU when you were boinking her husband, but I guess that's a different discussion.

Did you get the job? Would the restraining order be a hardship on your getting to and from your job? [/quote]

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