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[quote=Anonymous]After I had both my children my mom asked me, with glee in her voice, if I was still fat. I've been a pretty thin person my whole life. She is not thin. The point of this is that this has nothing to do with you or your weight AT ALL. People like this, like our parents, will find something, anything awful to say. Because they suck. So just try to look at it through that lens. He sucks. All you have control over is how you react and respond to what he's saying. I might try a - wow, dad your right my belly is so fat, can you believe it????? I'm so fat. Thanks for telling me. Just diffuse what he's saying and take the power out of what he's saying to you. Because that's all his behavior deserves, not all your frantic preparation. Sorry OP. [/quote]
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